Now just wait for her, talking about “honor” and other self and clan defensive stuff.
I’d say just let it go and forgive, because the more you give her some form of attention (even if that means just a tiny joke about her and her clan) will trigger her. It will look bleak that she may even stop.
I know you would want to stop but also want to make her feel what being called “like that” feels, sure, it’s your doings.
btw how would you rate her new mech?
Edit : I see you peeking over there… Avoid this.